Where I’ve Been
29 November 2011 at 3:31 pm 2 comments
It’s been such a long time since I’ve updated my blog. My time has been consumed for the last 18 months by my parents’ health (or lack thereof). Counting hospitalizations, rehab facilities, and moving into assisted living facilities, poor Mom and Dad slept in eleven different rooms in a year and a half — sometimes alone, sometimes together. Disorienting for them, exhausting for me! Actually — disorienting enough that they both developed anesthesia-induced dementia following surgical procedures. Dad died at the end of May. Mom remembers Dad’s gone on some days, and spends other days with him yet. 61 years of marriage causes old habits to die hard!
Entry filed under: friends and family. Tags: caregiving, dementia, unconscionable medical care.


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Kimberly | 2 January 2012 at 10:17 pm
Thinking always good thoughts of you.
We are coming to town on January 18th for Junior’s next vet visit – wondering if you would like a visit, perhaps lunch or tea??? We will have the two big puppies with us. Let me know.
Much love always.
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Pradeep Parashar | 12 December 2011 at 2:59 pm
It is your greatness to help out Mom as and when she requires care, because in fact she did care for you when you were young young one. You still owe her something which she deserves, I mean “you must have children to pay her back, otherwise you may remain in debt”
Thank you for your kindness!
with regards,
Pradeep Parashar